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		<title>both tax refunds have arrived!&#8230; and other plastic accomplishments</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 20:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>meeulk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week was quite productive in moving finances around. With both tax refunds arriving, I was able to completely pay off two credit cards (Sears and Chase). I also put $2000 aside for our trip in May. My FICO score is nudging back up the chart a little bit, so I was able to increase [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blooddebtandtears.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2778822&amp;post=26&amp;subd=blooddebtandtears&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week was quite productive in moving finances around.  With both tax refunds arriving, I was able to completely pay off two credit cards (Sears and Chase).  I also put $2000 aside for our trip in May.  My FICO score is nudging back up the chart a little bit, so I was able to increase a credit limit on a low interest Citibank card (11.99% down from 13.49% -they did this automatically for me!).  I was then able to transfer the entire balance from my Chase Bank One card ($1499) with a 24.99% interest rate to the lower interest card.  The transferred balance also has an introductory rate of 6.5% for 6 months.  All of this means that I am completely divorced from all Chase cards FOREVER!  I&#8217;ll leave them open for now to keep my FICO score in check, but Chase has been my demise since I first opened an account with them.  They take liberties with their APRs that should undergo scrupulous Federal examination.  I received a letter in the mail at the end of last year that stated my interest rate would be raised to 31% just because.  It still hasn&#8217;t been raised.  I think they wanted me to just close the account so I&#8217;d be locked into 29.99% forever.  It was also not in my favor that a Bank One card I had ended up in the hands of Chase after a merger.  The APR was pretty good until then.</p>
<p>I added in interest charges for March in this, so some of the balances have gone up from the last snowball post.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s where things stand now&#8230; There are 4 zero balances in there!</p>
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		<title>consumer holidays</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2008 13:58:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>meeulk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Valentine&#8217;s Day has been claimed at some point to be thought up by Hallmark&#8230; even though St. Valentine came from Italy, where I&#8217;m pretty sure Hallmark did NOT originate&#8230; regardless, I still like it. I did, however, tell Husband to not buy me anything this year. He usually buys flowers. He&#8217;s really good at it, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blooddebtandtears.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2778822&amp;post=24&amp;subd=blooddebtandtears&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Valentine&#8217;s Day has been claimed at some point to be thought up by Hallmark&#8230; even though St. Valentine came from Italy, where I&#8217;m pretty sure Hallmark did NOT originate&#8230; regardless, I still like it.  I did, however, tell Husband to not buy me anything this year.  He usually buys flowers.  He&#8217;s really good at it, too.  He doesn&#8217;t buy expensive roses, because, 1. they&#8217;re about $50 overpriced this time of year, and 2. I don&#8217;t really like roses.  They are too cliché.   I like daisies and other colorful, simple flowers.  We are going to dinner to a place that doesn&#8217;t not have a special V-Day menu.  We will be paying the same price as if we were going any other day of the year.</p>
<p>I do not agree with commercial upon commercial depicting the most loved female in the world because she received diamonds in her sleep.  The size of the diamond (ie cost of the diamond) does not automatically equal the amount of love one feels for another, even though we&#8217;ve been programmed to believe that.  I also have to wonder what the heck these women got for Christmas only 2 months ago if they are getting a wad of diamonds for V-Day.  There must have been a Lexus with a giant red bow in the driveway for her.</p>
<p>Found out today that indeed, our tax return will be one and half weeks late&#8230; inevitably.  Thanks IRS.</p>
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		<title>windfalls</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2008 16:36:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From my understanding, when you get a windfall, even if it&#8217;s $5, it should go straight to debt. Well, I received $191 in medical reimbursements that I&#8217;m having taken out pre-taxed from my paycheck (like a cafeteria plan). Being already behind didn&#8217;t lend to lots of extra money. I ended up putting $25 towards my [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blooddebtandtears.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2778822&amp;post=22&amp;subd=blooddebtandtears&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>From my understanding, when you get a windfall, even if it&#8217;s $5, it should go straight to debt.  Well, I received $191 in medical reimbursements that I&#8217;m having taken out pre-taxed from my paycheck (like a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cafeteria_plan">cafeteria plan</a>).  Being already behind didn&#8217;t lend to lots of extra money.  I ended up putting $25 towards my highest interest card that will not be paid off with the tax return.  If I can keep doing that&#8230; it&#8217;ll pay off eventually.  But, I feel like I&#8217;m not making the headway I should be.  Husband and I really need to start focusing on eating at home.  That&#8217;s one of our biggest problems.  I also really wish I could get him to not spend money on little things like DVDs or fish (for example) at least for a few months.  That&#8217;s $30 more we could have in our account next month or pay toward debt.</p>
<p>Since I&#8217;ve previously just posted credit card debt, here&#8217;s a layout of our other debt.</p>
<p>husband&#8217;s student loan: $13,180.87</p>
<p>husband&#8217;s car: $8839.79</p>
<p>my car: $21,702.99</p>
<p>mortgage: $197,801.55</p>
<p>I just did some research regarding my car payments.  When I bought the car I also purchased an extended warranty that was *thought* to be tacked onto the end of the manufacturer&#8217;s warranty.  This was not the case&#8230; they overlapped, so it was a total waste of money.   I requested to cancel that warranty, and the dealership put the full amount ($1330) toward my principal.  I was originally hoping to lower my monthly payment, but it was just considered a big payment.  I&#8217;ve also being paying a whopping $9 over the minimum payment each month.  (mainly because that makes my payment an even number)  I figured out that with the principal payment and the additional $9/month payments, my length of loan will be 68 months instead of the original 75 months.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 19:16:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Click the pic to see the current snowball. I&#8217;ll be posting lots of these to track progress, esp. after I make a small dent with the tax refund!<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blooddebtandtears.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2778822&amp;post=21&amp;subd=blooddebtandtears&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p align="left">Click the pic to see the current snowball.</p>
<p align="left">I&#8217;ll be posting lots of these to track progress, esp. after I make a small dent with the tax refund!</p>
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		<title>checked on my tax refund</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 18:18:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It should arrive February 15th, but from what I&#8217;ve read&#8230; the government outsourcing to Santa Barbara Bank &#38; Trust hindered the delivery of the refunds. They also charge a $29.95 fee to process your payments ($29.95 federal and $29.95 state, in my case) if you decide to pay from your tax refund rather than your [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blooddebtandtears.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2778822&amp;post=7&amp;subd=blooddebtandtears&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It should arrive February 15th, but from what I&#8217;ve read&#8230; the government outsourcing to <a href="http://http://www.sbbt.com/personal_solutions/tax-refund-services.jsp">Santa Barbara Bank &amp; Trust</a> hindered the delivery of the refunds.  They also charge a <a href="http://http://turbotax.intuit.com/support/kb/e-file/ef-status/1883.html">$29.95 fee</a> to process your payments ($29.95 federal and $29.95 state, in my case) if you decide to pay from your tax refund rather than your bank account.  How confusing is that?!   So, we had to pay $90 to file our taxes online, and pay the filing fees out of the tax refund!  One would think the internet would be less hassle and more fluid than mailing PAPER to the IRS and having actual PEOPLE HANDLING the paperwork!  That&#8217;s where the processing fee needs to be!  We should be rewarded for using less paper.  Seriously.  Not going to happen with &#8220;Dub-ya&#8221; up there!</p>
<p>I had to make payments this week on credit cards today so payment won&#8217;t be late even though I&#8217;m paying some of the cards off this month.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m trying to get our rotation of bill-paying caught up from Christmas.  We got behind by spending money and then having to wait until the next paycheck to pay the bills we should have paid two weeks before.  (smart) They weren&#8217;t late, but barely on time.  I&#8217;d like the get away from that.  I&#8217;d like to be paying bills at least two weeks before they&#8217;re due.  It&#8217;ll will definitely help to have 2.5 less bills to pay, even though it won&#8217;t add up to that much extra cash each month.</p>
<p>I was under the impression that when you pay a credit card off, the next month is a final payment for interest for the previous month.  Is this not always the case?  I paid a card off and never had another bill after that.  Maybe it was brilliant timing.</p>
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		<title>credit card debt status</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2008 16:29:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This here is a listing of our credit card debt only&#8230; we also make 2 car payments, a mortgage payment, a student loan payment, and other misc. bill payments. With the use of what&#8217;s the cost, I&#8217;ve been able to view our minuscule dent (if there is one) in our debt so far. Chase 29.99% [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blooddebtandtears.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2778822&amp;post=6&amp;subd=blooddebtandtears&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This here is a listing of our credit card debt only&#8230; we also make 2 car payments, a mortgage payment, a student loan payment, and other misc. bill payments.</p>
<p>With the use of <a href="http://www.whatsthecost.com" title="what's the cost" target="_blank">what&#8217;s the cost</a>, I&#8217;ve been able to view our minuscule dent (if there is one) in our debt so far.</p>
<p>Chase                              29.99%            $733.33 (will be eliminating with tax refund!)</p>
<p>Chase Bank One              26.24%               $1445.62</p>
<p>Capital One                    19.40%           $6045.00</p>
<p>Bank of America            14.99%           $5760.92</p>
<p>Orchard Bank                23.15%           $2198.98 (will be eliminating over half with tax refund!)</p>
<p>Sears                               25.40%          $1133.35 (will be eliminating with tax refund!)</p>
<p>Providian (WMU)         25.99%          $2821.60</p>
<p>Truliant                          14.00%          $2214.43</p>
<p>Belk                                  3.00%           $520.06</p>
<p>Coastal                           15.17%            $10,000.00 (attempt at consolidating and eliminating Chase)</p>
<p>Citibank                         13.24%             $2251.73</p>
<p>There it is in a nutshell&#8230; all laid out in print&#8230; skeery.</p>
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		<title>we&#8217;re getting a tax refund from federal and state!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2008 21:46:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Husband and I filed taxes yesterday. It&#8217;s our first year as homeowners, so we&#8217;re getting some interest back. It&#8217;s also the first year we&#8217;ve filed jointly. Our total refund will be in the ballpark of $5100. We&#8217;ve already made plans for the money. pay ourselves first (I know this usually means via a savings account [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blooddebtandtears.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2778822&amp;post=4&amp;subd=blooddebtandtears&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Husband and I filed taxes yesterday.  It&#8217;s our first year as homeowners, so we&#8217;re getting some interest back.  It&#8217;s also the first year we&#8217;ve filed jointly.  Our total refund will be in the ballpark of $5100.  We&#8217;ve already made plans for the money.</p>
<p>pay ourselves first (I know this usually means via a savings account or 401k, but there are things we both need to do and this is a good way to get them done without spending money from the joint account&#8230;can we say haircut finally!!): $150 each</p>
<p>save for our trip in May: $2000</p>
<p>put the rest towards debt! woohoo!:  $2800</p>
<p>We are going to be able to pay off 2.5 cards.  We&#8217;ve paid off one small $300 card, but this will make me feel like we are making headway.</p>
<p>I initially wanted to put most of it towards debt, but it will be nice to have the money set aside gaining interest for our 1st anniversary trip.  it would also save us some money in the long run to pay off debt with it, but already having the money means we won&#8217;t be using credit cards on the trip.  It&#8217;s going to be awesome!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll update soon with a rundown of cards, percentages, and balances&#8230; trust me&#8230; it will make you feel better about your debt situation.</p>
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		<title>we shredded our credit cards!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2008 21:29:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since this is the first blog, let me explain myself. I&#8217;m blogging to stay organized&#8230; that&#8217;s one of the reasons I thought debt was not an option for me&#8230; because I am organized. I&#8217;m 30 years old, make decent money, and have nothing to show for it. Actually, that&#8217;s not true. I have all the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blooddebtandtears.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2778822&amp;post=3&amp;subd=blooddebtandtears&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since this is the first blog, let me explain myself.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m blogging to stay organized&#8230; that&#8217;s one of the reasons I thought debt was not an option for me&#8230; because I am organized.  I&#8217;m 30 years old, make decent money, and have nothing to show for it.  Actually, that&#8217;s not true.  I have all the crap I bought on credit to show for it.</p>
<p>Last month my husband and I shredded our credit cards.  It was a grand and empowering moment (for me, at least).  What I didn&#8217;t think of was that our spending was more than our income, and after bills, we really didn&#8217;t have any extra cash!  I&#8217;m talking less than $100 for two weeks of gas and food.  Hey, but the bills were paid on time right?!  I had a moment of weakness, which I like to think was a necessity, this week.  I paid the mortgage and was concerned that our weekend spending would put us in the negative if the mortgage check cleared.  I was right.  I had to deposit a 0% interest credit card check into our account.  I really don&#8217;t think this was a good idea, but our only other option was hope it doesn&#8217;t clear before I get paid.</p>
<p>My husband doesn&#8217;t understand why there is no money.  He&#8217;s the one that would pay bills late so he would have some spending money.  This was before I took over our finances.  This was when we were responsible for only ourselves.   This is a point of argument for us.  He spends money that&#8217;s not there, and then I get upset.  Then he complains that I should keep him in the know and gets mad because we should have plenty of money to spend at will.  We would if we didn&#8217;t have debt.  I really can&#8217;t wait for that day!</p>
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